tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2186797796234731983.post8280519081853704989..comments2024-01-23T15:17:03.848+02:00Comments on Beneath the Wings: The Fancy Purse Shoprickismomhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07817042750959998664noreply@blogger.comBlogger10125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2186797796234731983.post-77663519722306508932012-10-31T05:46:01.414+02:002012-10-31T05:46:01.414+02:00I just fell in love with you and your blog. I have...I just fell in love with you and your blog. I have some learning to do and I think I found a good teacher.Wordshurtorhealhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12039330463065872512noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2186797796234731983.post-69707984733194413192012-10-24T21:00:58.337+02:002012-10-24T21:00:58.337+02:00feetety 156Anonymous and Rickismom-so glad that th...feetety 156Anonymous and Rickismom-so glad that things have changed in this respect. This was definitely not done 22 years ago because I specifically asked and was denied.May all we bereaved parents not know from more sorrow.perlsandnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2186797796234731983.post-12168547405772774292012-10-24T15:42:27.580+02:002012-10-24T15:42:27.580+02:00Anonymous is correctAnonymous is correctRickismomhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04078192111057725026noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2186797796234731983.post-81316087111237632262012-10-24T01:40:39.514+02:002012-10-24T01:40:39.514+02:00I'm going to have to go to their office and ch...I'm going to have to go to their office and check this out.... and will let you all know (hopefully) what happensRickismomhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04078192111057725026noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2186797796234731983.post-14933467393827092742012-10-24T00:59:06.029+02:002012-10-24T00:59:06.029+02:00Perlsand, as I commented on the ID card post, you ...Perlsand, as I commented on the ID card post, you can have them leave your child's name on it with z"l after it. My child passed away and his name is still on my card. Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2186797796234731983.post-39040169566724362352012-10-23T00:14:24.951+02:002012-10-23T00:14:24.951+02:00Wow-I was unable to access your blog for a couple ...Wow-I was unable to access your blog for a couple of weeks and I see that I missed so much. The birthday has also always been a problem for me. We can't ignore it, obviously, because it's there.In the first years following my daughter Nava's death, I would take balloons to her grave-I knew they wouldn't last even 2 minutes after I left but it didn't matter-I brought it to her.After she got to the age(in my mind) where I thought balloons weren't appropriate anymore, I started bringing a flower-putting it in an old plastic bottle with water.I never asked if this is proper halachically because it's something I need to do-I do it from my heart.I can't say that some birthdays aren't still sad-thinking what could have been, had Nava lived,but this gives me the feeling that I'm doing something positive.My thoughts are with you,even though I missed the actual birthday.<br />As far as the id card is concerned.How sad that the misrad hapnim continues to be so narrow-minded.I was interviewed for an article in the J Post about 20 years ago and told my similar story.Only, I gave birth 6 months after losing Nava and when the id card came back in the mail, my son was added but my second child had been omitted-erased, as if she never existed. I can really understand you because I still feel the pain of that day-22+ years later. At the time, I complained-even to an MK- but got nowhere. How sad that it hasn't changed.Thinking of you and of Ricky z"l and sending you a virtual hug.perlsandnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2186797796234731983.post-20058335005511041852012-10-20T04:41:18.898+02:002012-10-20T04:41:18.898+02:00Sorry for being a day late to comment on Ricki'...Sorry for being a day late to comment on Ricki's birthday. She is in my thoughts and so are you. May her memory always remain bright.Belindahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09251920708783268740noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2186797796234731983.post-46797144901037527692012-10-18T10:35:19.637+02:002012-10-18T10:35:19.637+02:00True, Batia. But there were enough times that it w...True, Batia. But there were enough times that it was pretty apparent....Rickismomhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04078192111057725026noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2186797796234731983.post-33883217434535333612012-10-18T07:38:11.837+02:002012-10-18T07:38:11.837+02:00Some of it may just be your perception. Being sli...Some of it may just be your perception. Being slim gives you a different confidence.Batyahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09402874037427009327noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2186797796234731983.post-9141782204927051992012-10-18T00:52:45.046+02:002012-10-18T00:52:45.046+02:00It's sad when our society looks at and judges ...It's sad when our society looks at and judges people by the outside. I'm thankful our Lord always, always looks at the heart.Cindyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13760897671143549963noreply@blogger.com