tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2186797796234731983.post1443393093281572091..comments2024-01-23T15:17:03.848+02:00Comments on Beneath the Wings: Clearing My Head…..rickismomhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07817042750959998664noreply@blogger.comBlogger5125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2186797796234731983.post-12772566402870436732012-08-18T02:53:47.088+03:002012-08-18T02:53:47.088+03:00I've been thinking about you. I got on the com...I've been thinking about you. I got on the computer this evening just to see if you had posted. <br /><br />I can't imagine what you are going through, but you remain in my prayers.<br /><br />(I commented once but my computer had a hick up and I don't know if it posted. Forgive me if this is a duplicate.)<br />Cindyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13760897671143549963noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2186797796234731983.post-37364805686362736102012-08-17T06:22:58.640+03:002012-08-17T06:22:58.640+03:00Ruth, I've been wanting to write you privately...Ruth, I've been wanting to write you privately (in case you don't recall, I lost a son a number of years ago) but the email addy from your last SFM post is no longer current. <br />Malky (Shloimy's mom from SFM)Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2186797796234731983.post-59277706701566058622012-08-16T16:25:30.491+03:002012-08-16T16:25:30.491+03:00Paula, wise words.....Paula, wise words.....Rickismomhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04078192111057725026noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2186797796234731983.post-85025023370904480202012-08-16T11:49:36.572+03:002012-08-16T11:49:36.572+03:00I don't know that "coming to terms" ...I don't know that "coming to terms" is the right concept here. You will accept her loss, but you will never get used to it or get passed it as such. What you will do is find a way to move on, without moving away; you'll find a way to remember the joy beyond the loss. You will learn to smile at a memory without tears filling your eyes (as mine are now for you and for Ricki). One of the most amazing things about the Jewish process of mourning is that it is so controlled, so intense, and so healthy. Use it to guide you to where you are meant to go, knowing with each step, you take Ricki with you. Sending my love! PaulaA Soldier's Motherhttp://www.israelisoldiersmother.blogspot.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2186797796234731983.post-11940176505166852672012-08-16T06:47:21.177+03:002012-08-16T06:47:21.177+03:00No doubt there are bereaved parents support groups...No doubt there are bereaved parents support groups, where you'll find that your feelings and reactions are all normal.<br /><br />The really important thing is to make sure you take care of your health, especially after being so sedentary.Batyahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09402874037427009327noreply@blogger.com